You ever felt like you were just too real for this sh** and by this sh** I mean this era of life? The sad thing is I feel like this everyday. As a single woman, I use to get discouraged about how long I would be single and if there is really a "Mr. Right for me". As we all know, social media is LIFE, for most people around the world and it does not matter the age. I recently had a situation where I was communicating with an associate on one of our populer social sites, and we were updating each other on our lives. He asked how my life was and I told him. I asked how his "marriage life" was and he went on a rant on how he is ready for the "BIG D", DIVORCE that is! I was shocked because according to social media I thought they were in a #BLISSFUL Relationship. Now here is the kicker, he had the nerve to start flirting with me as if I would even think about being interested in a "MARRIED MAN". While he is doing all that, I'm giving him tips on how he could probably save his marriage, "let me help save y'all", I thought to myself lol. So let's fast forward, this same man is back happy and in love with his wife on social media and it definitely doesn't look like he is getting a divorce anytime soon. So the question is, was he lying? Was there trouble in paradise? Was he putting on? or is he just a dirty, lying, cheating dog? My answer is, all of the above. I don't even know why they lie about simple things when women are the investigators of the world. Social media tell's it ALL. Single women, are not always lonely and miserable so don't think you guys are doing us a favor by coming to us with all your lies and baggage. Stay out of our dm's and slide in on your wife's.
We need to go back to our roots and start doing more research on the "BIG L", Loyalty that is. the definition of loyalty is devotion and faithfulness to a cause, country, group, or person. That also means, that no matter good or bad, right or wrong, I respect you and I love you so you won't have to worry about me changing up on you when you are NOT AROUND. You have nothing to gain being disloyal and dishonest. So remember that!